Don’t be afraid of the old axiom “Fake it till you make it.” Many powerful people you know weren’t always that way. They strengthened their power quotient by pretending to be confident, and they headed right into the very projects from which others shied away.
People shy away from opportunities because they think they don’t know enough, or because they’re afraid of a bad outcome. From applying for a loan for our business to negotiating with a customer or supplier, we should use our best acting skills to portray a strong and confident person, even if we feel like Jello inside.
“But Lee,” you say, “that’s not being who I am.” Confidence is not automatic in our growth process. We become more confident by having good outcomes. If you’re holding yourself back by not going for the truly important outcomes because you think you are not worthy, try going for them anyway. You’ll make those good outcomes happen.
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Some online sellers have been grousing about having to pay to promote their eBay listings. This is not entrepreneurial thinking. Most businesses need marketing in order to grow and compete.
Any brick-and-mortar startup includes “getting the word out” marketing in their business plan. They do TV spots, community newspapers, and restaurant guides. They make charitable contributions in the community for events, etc. They may even donate their products or services for giveaways at community events.
Then there are radio spots, billboards, and building signage — just to get the word out. It all costs money. With eBay, sellers have a unique opportunity to market their listings in ways other than just relying on the search engine.
I just read a post by Katie Hammel in eBay for Business, “Why Every Entrepreneur needs a Mentor — and How to Find One”. It’s an excellent article. Chances are you’ve been a mentor in your own life, starting with your children or younger family members or friends.
I’ve learned a lot since I’ve been doing eBay Radio, both from Griff and from just about every eBay seller I’ve come to know. Successful people never stop learning, and even mentors have mentors.
I owe my success to many mentors in my career and in my life. I chose them for different goals I wanted to achieve. Some mentors follow special rules for mentoring; this can be a good way to go. I’ve also used the old-fashioned method: Keep your ears open and your brain engaged.
When attending an all-day business event —- say in Las Vegas, in July —- you need to be comfortable from the ground up. Here are some shoe tips.
First, bring a spare pair with you to the convention space. Changing your footwear during the day can help relieve or prevent aches and pains.
You’ll also want to wear a walking-type shoe with good thick padded soles, accompanied by socks. Visitors often wear flip-flops or sandals, which are OK for outside, but not in casino or conference rooms. They’re open and don’t have the padding that a shoe with a sock has, so they don’t hold up well for walking long distances.
In addition, hotel and casino management wants us to feel comfortable, so they have the air conditioning set on High during the summer. That means you may end up with cold feet —- literally. Dress for the occasion, right down to your toes. Vegas babee!
Where do you eBay? If you say “from home”, then you’re among the majority of online entrepreneurs, who know that working from home is a blessing in so many ways.
However, you must make sure that your workplace allows for efficient and effective business dealings. While many at-home entrepreneurs start out at their dining room table, or on a bench out in the garage, they usually migrate into a true workspace. That means a part of your home that’s used exclusively for your business.
The IRS comes into play as well, because they allow you the home office deduction ONLY if you use that square footage solely for business. Make it look like a workspace, with a desk, shelves, and an inbox. You’ll work more effectively and enjoy the deduction.
Remember the elevator pitch? It’s a description of your business that should be no longer than a short elevator ride: 20-30 seconds, no more. So what do you say when you’re asked, “What do you do?” Your reply can make all the difference in people’s perceptions of your business life — and set the stage for credibility.
Depending upon your image needs, here are 8 responses I’ve heard that work quite well. Have some business cards to back up any of these statements:
What’s your elevator pitch?
When defining entrepreneurialism, risk-taking is often the first element mentioned. The result of some risk-taking is failure; that’s why it’s called “risk”-taking. Many entrepreneurs have filed for bankruptcy, lost everything, and had to start again from the ground up. Some give up, while others go on have successful businesses.
So what makes the difference? The first group gives up because to them, a failure means that they were a failure, not that the project failed. But even if you make mistakes that led to the failure, you haven’t failed; it’s the project that failed, and you took the opportunity to learn from your mistakes. Successful entrepreneurs try, try again. Risk-taking by its very nature means there is a possibility of failure. Don’t be afraid!
One of the biggest challenges work-from-home entrepreneurs face is when family and friends fail to take your workday seriously. You need to create a true work atmosphere in for your business.
Although one of the benefits of being your own boss is that you are able to take time off to do the things you want, it can be highly disruptive to your business to be constantly interrupted. In order to succeed, you must take charge of your average work day.
So 3 tips today:
You’ve seen those movie or TV scenes where an executive has nothing on his or her desk other than their nameplate, a computer screen, one keepsake, and a pen. Follow suit.
Entrepreneurs get overwhelmed sometimes; it’s normal. However, you can make some changes, beginning with your desk. You should have only one project at a time on your desk. When you need to go on to the next project, put the present one away immediately.
Some companies are starting to purchase desks without drawers. That way your work is usually sitting on your desk, where it’s harder to ignore, so it’s usually handled the same day.
The first thing you can do is to remove everything from your desk. Start from scratch. On your desk should be nothing but your computer plus your task box, sometimes called your inbox; some pens and pencils in a holder; one memento; and a scratch pad, just in case. That’s it.
Try it. You’ll breathe more freely, and you’ll be more effective.